Determining the ideal firmness for a toy is subjective and depends on various factors such as texture and size.  You may have encountered toys that were too soft for their size, resulting in a floppy and unsatisfying experience, or toys that were overly firm and challenging to insert, causing discomfort. Here is a rule of thumb: the larger the girth, the softer the toy.

  • Firm: Recommended for toys under 1.5" in diameter or toys with smoother textures.
  • Medium: Ideal for most toys and textures ranging from 1.5" to 1.9" in diameter.
  • Soft/Extra-soft: Suitable for larger, thicker toys, typically 2" in diameter and above.
  • Extra firm, glass & metal: G-spot and P-spot toys are best with weight and firmness. Completely smooth plugs and toys, as well as toys 1.3" and smaller, work well with any texture.

However, it's important to remember that everyone's body is different, and what works for one person may not work for another. The sizes and firmness's mentioned above serve as a sensible starting point, but ultimately, it's crucial to listen to your own body and let it guide your preferences. Enjoy the process of exploring and happy shopping!